“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.”
In that one, single sentence, Jesus sums up what it really means to be a Christian. There is so much depth in that sentence that we need to unpack it phrase-by-phrase to fully understand its meaning in our lives. Let’s look at the first point, one “must deny himself.” Read More
For the fruits of his creation, Thanks be to God; For the gifts to every nation, Thanks be to God; For the ploughing, sowing, reaping, Silent growth while men are sleeping, Future needs in earth’s safekeeping, Thanks be to God.
In the just rewards of labor, God’s will is done; In the help we give our neighbor, God’s will is done; In our world-wide task of caring, For the hungry and despairing, In the harvests men are sharing, God’s will is done.
For the harvests of his spirit, Thanks be to God; For the good all men inherit, Thanks be to God; For the wonders that astound us, For the truths that still confound us, Most of all, that love has found us, Thanks be to God.
~Text by F. Pratt Green
These are the words to a hymn that opened up my Evening Prayer last night. As I read this words, I was deeply moved by its simplicity, yet poignant message.
With all that is going on in our world right now, it is so easy to simply forget to give praise to our Father in heaven. Between all of the hate and violence that surround us, the lack of love and support for our neighbor, and for the inability to respect the sanctity and beauty of human life, we need to pray this prayer more than ever. And not only that, but to simply know and believe that we are loved by our God.
My words today are short and sweet. I pray that all of us are able to find true peace in our loving Father. May we have the strength to praise our God no matter what we are experiencing in our days. May we be able to find the ability to take time in our busy schedules to pray, to find it in our hearts the ability to give honor and glory to our Creator and Savior. Let us find in our hearts the beauty that lies within, and the peace that can only be found in our Lord, Jesus Christ.
May the spirit of the living God be with you always. And always remember that you are loved. Amen.
“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me” ~Mark 8:34
If you are anything like me, you have probably thought about this verse more than once over the years. What did Jesus really mean by following him? What does it truly entail?
Following Jesus means responding to his call every day and believing in the gospel. But it is more than just following and believing; it is also about imitating his example. We need to be asking ourselves these questions: Are we living in a manner that reflects Christ to everyone we encounter? Are we putting the needs of others before our own? Are we being kind and treating our neighbors (and I mean ALL our neighbors) with dignity, respect, and love – acknowledging that they, like us, are made in the image and likeness of God?
Honestly, following Jesus is downright difficult; however, it can be done. During every step of our journey, we must make a conscious effort to follow Jesus through the narrow gate of life into the abyss of the unknown. If we can faithfully do this, we will find peace. Fellow composer and musician John Angotti wrote about this when he quoted Jesus in a song:
“He said to me, ‘Come and follow me.’ He said to me, ‘Come and follow me.’ There you’ll find peace of mind if you just come and follow me.”
And this is what I now ask of you: to make that conscious effort to come and follow me, too. I want to assist you on the journey by providing spiritual and faith-based guidance through my thoughts, writings, and insights. But due to my busy schedule, my blog posts do no appear as often as I would like. Therefore, the best way to keep up with me is to follow me on social media. Hopefully, I can provide you with some peace of mind through my Daily Thoughts, Noonish Nuggets, PM Ponders, and just a little bit of my ‘Deacon Allen’ humor. Here is where you will find me:
Where is the one who brought up out of the sea, the shepherd of his flock? Where is the one who placed in their midst his holy spirit, who guided Moses by the hand, with his glorious arm?
Where is the one who divided the waters before them— winning for himself an everlasting renown— who guided them through the depths, like horses in open country?
As cattle going down into the valley, they did not stumble. The spirit of the Lord guided them. Thus, you led your people, to make for yourself a glorious name. ~Isaiah 63: 11b-14
Since the very beginning of this pandemic, there has been one phrase that we continue to hear: “We are all in this together.” It reminds us that you are I are not the only ones facing the challenges and struggles of COVID-19. Like it or not, we are all in the same boat.
As part of my day-job, I get to speak with people from across the globe every single day. This past week, I spoke with individuals from Japan, China, Sweden, Mexico and the United Kingdom. Every call begins with the topic of self-isolation, how we are surviving in this current environment, and if our families are safe. I see on a daily basis how we really are ‘all in this together.’ This is truly a global experience.
I have been thinking about this and how we can make a direct connection with our own Catholic faith. Catholic means universal. The Mass and the other sacraments are celebrated exactly the same throughout the world, bringing all Catholics together in a spirit of unity.
When I have attended Mass in other countries; even though I may not have fully understood the languages, I was fully aware of what was taking place. No matter where we may be, our Catholic faith is universal, centered around Jesus Christ and our belief in Jesus’ presence in the Eucharist.
But being Catholic is also about having an ongoing personal encounter with Christ so that we may be a witness of God’s love in the world. This means that we are called to live like Jesus and to work for peace and justice for one another by living out the Gospel.
We are part of this universal Church together, believing that God is not only present in the Eucharist, but is also present within us. This means that whatever we are going through, whatever comes our way, whatever obstacles we encounter, we are never left alone. God is always with us. Now I’ll admit, it’s not always easy to recognize Jesus when our eyes are cast down, when life is difficult, or when we find ourselves in our own personal pit of despair. But that is when we must fall back on our faith, trusting and believing that Jesus is the only one who can lift us out of our pit. We just need to be able to lift up our eyes and our hearts to see that Jesus is right there and to feel his presence.
My sisters and brothers, as Catholic-Christians “we are all in this together.” We always have been, and we always will be. May the spirit of the Lord guide us always and let us remember that Jesus is with us; Jesus is here – and we are never left alone.
Though the fig tree does not blossom, and no fruit appears on the vine, Though the yield of the olive fails and the terraces produce no nourishment,though the flocks disappear from the fold and there is no herd in the stalls; Yet I will rejoice in the Lord and exult in my saving God.
God, my Lord, is my strength; he makes my feet swift as those of deer and enables me to tread upon the heights.
These short verses from Habakkuk (3:17-19) is a small portion of one of my favorite scripture passages. For me, it’s always a reminder that even in the face of fear and uncertainty, there is always an opportunity to express faith and trust in God’s awesome majesty and power. However, during this particular Holy Week, this has been a bit more challenging.
All of us are battling the dominant forces and effects of this COVID-19 outbreak. So much so that we cannot help ourselves from being overcome with fear. We have fears after being introduced to new terms such as “global pandemic, social distancing and self-isolation.” We have fears of becoming prisoners in our own homes – quarantined from those we love and our communities of faith. We have fears of losing our livelihood, our ability to socialize, our freedom to do what we want, when we want, and where we want. We have fears of losing our jobs, returning to our jobs, providing for our families and getting back to some sense of normalcy. And we are fearful of this powerful disease that is taking more and more lives ever single day. We can’t help but ask the question: when will this all end?
I’ve been reflecting a lot this week on how the disciples were feeling after Jesus had died and how similar it is to our current situation. Think about it. Jesus had been unjustly convicted, crucified and buried. His friends feared for their lives. They feared that they would be the next ones to die. They feared the uncertainties ahead of them: what to do, where to go, and how to move on. They isolated themselves to avoid any contact with others out of fear of what could happen. They were fearful that life outside of their community of believers would never feel the same again. They had to be asking that same question: when will this all end?
But despite all of their fears, they still held onto their faith. They still believed in Jesus and trusted that his death was not the end – but just the beginning. They were finally starting to understand that they needed to first experience death in order to experience resurrection – to experience new life in Christ; a life that knows no end.
We too must fall back on our faith during this period between death and resurrection, between Good Friday and Easter Sunday. We must believe that whatever comes our way, whatever we encounter, whatever fears overtake us, whatever uncertainties confront us – we are never left alone. We trust that our God and Savior is always with us, especially during the difficult times in our lives. We believe that Jesus is suffering right along with us, holding our hand and guiding us through the darkness. It’s our faith that will bring us that much needed comfort and hope.
On this Holy Saturday, let us rejoice in the Lord and give praise to our saving God. May we, just like the disciples, find the strength to ride out these dark days and patiently wait for the stone to be cast aside – for new life is right around the corner.
I am writing this as I sit secluded in my home
office. Like all of us here in Illinois (and many other locations worldwide),
we have been instructed to stay in and avoid leaving our homes. This, of
course, is to prevent the continued spread of the COVID-19 virus. Thousands
upon thousands are being mandated to work from home. Many of us have never done
that before and may be struggling with this new concept. And if you have others
at home with you (especially young children), you may be feeling the stress of
wondering how you will be able to accomplish anything. Hopefully, I can help
guide you through this challenging ‘remote worker’ journey.
I’ve
been fortunate to have been an exclusive work-from-home employee for nearly 8
years now. Prior to that, I was telecommuting several days each week for about
3 years. Over this period, I have learned how to be productive, efficient, and trustworthy.
(Yes, trust is a big factor as your employer is trusting that you are doing
what you are being paid to do – especially when not in the office and not
directly supervised.) Therefore, I would like to share a few tips on how you
can work remotely while maintaining your sanity as well as the sanity of those
stuck at home with you.
Start your day with prayer. There is no better way to begin your workday than by praying
to your heavenly Father. By carving out a few minutes each morning for prayer,
you will notice that your day runs more smoothly and that you can better handle
what lies ahead. Remember, prayer changes everything.
Make a to-do list. After praying, plan out your day and write down (either on
paper or in an app) all that you need to accomplish that day. Prioritize your
tasks and get to work. Having a plan is an excellent way to stay focused on
what needs to be done.
Find a space and create an
environment. If you can claim a space in your home that
is away from everyone, good for you. This is not always the case. If you cannot
get away from the action, then find a space that is comfortable and functional.
A kitchen table is not always the best choice, and neither is in front of a TV.
Try a small desk in a bedroom or even at the dining room table. Create an
environment that will put you at ease and let you focus on your daily tasks. Have
some family photos nearby. Maybe light a candle or listen to some instrumental
music, or even have a meditation fountain running. I like to have some
religious articles in my sight to remind me that God is always with me during
my day.
Separate work (work) and
home (work). A constant challenge for any remote worker
is trying to keep your home life from creeping into your work life. It’s difficult
to not think of all the things that you need to get accomplished at home, but you
need to find a way to do this. If you need to put a sticky note on your
computer to remind you to stay focused, then by all means do so. The mind
always wants to wander. You must do whatever it takes to bring it back to reality
– and to the work at hand.
Set some ground rules. This is especially important if you have children at
home. Make sure that they know that when the door is closed, you are not to be
interrupted. Be creative. If the bathroom is the only isolation chamber in your
house, then use it for those important phone calls. Setting some ground rules
upfront will make all the difference.
Take a break. Studies have shown that sitting and staring at your
computer for a prolonged period of time is not good for your eyes, body, or
mind. Set a timer for 50 minutes. When the timer goes off, take a 10-minute break.
Don’t hit the snooze! Literally stand up and walk away from your work. Take a
quick walk, do some yoga stretches, meditate or even pray. And don’t forget to eat.
It sounds silly, but I cannot tell you how many times that I was so engrossed
in my work that I had completely forgotten to eat. Try to stick with a similar
time each day for lunch (or a walk). Doing this will re-energize your mind and
body and better prepare yourself for getting back to work.
Stay off of social media. Avoid the temptation of peeking at your social media
accounts. Once you fall into this hole, it is extremely difficult to pull
yourself out. If you are completely hooked, then at least try to save this for
when you take your breaks or lunch.
Be patient. Working from home is not always easy, and it’s not
always for everyone. But cut yourself some slack. Noah didn’t build the ark
overnight. It may take some time to find your groove. Just be patient with
yourself. Ask God to help you if distractions keep making your mind drift.
Perhaps God is trying to tell you something important with those distractions.
Ask for help. In many cases, working from home will make your more productive.
This is primarily due to missing out on some of the common distractions of
being in an office. And as you become more productive, you may find that you are
so involved in your work that you lose all track of time. This is truly the
case if you have a private room tucked away from everyone else in the house. This
is where my wife Stephanie has been invaluable to me. When I get too buried in
what I am doing and it is getting late in the day, she will remind me that it
is time to come out of my cave. I can’t tell you how many times I needed her to
do that for me. Don’t be afraid to ask someone for help, someone who can remind
you to come back to the family and back to reality.
Adapt as required. Phones will ring, children will interrupt, dogs will
bark, diapers need to be changed, etc. Life happens. Don’t lose your cool. Don’t
turn a cut into an amputation. Once you realize that things happen (and you don’t
get upset over these things when they happen), you will be in a better position
to go with the flow.
One
final thought. I always like to end my day with prayer. Whether doing an
examination of conscience or any other type of prayer, it’s always a good idea
to have the final words of your day be one of praise and thanksgiving to the One
who made the day possible.
May God bless you and keep you safe during these difficult times.
Remember, we’re all in this together. I’d love to hear if you have some other tips that may be useful for others.
For the past several weeks, I have been under
an overwhelming amount of stress. Most of this was work-related: working long
hours with short deadlines. Throw in several church-related activities and
tasks on top of that, and I was running on non-stop overdrive.
In
the midst of all of this, we had a family emergency at the hospital. Upon
driving to the hospital one day, I noticed that I was having difficulty
breathing and felt some odd pains in my chest that I had never felt before. I
thought that I was having a heart attack. I immediately broke into prayer
asking God to help calm me down. At that very moment, a song came on the radio
– and I heard these lyrics:
Every anxious thought that steals my breath,
It’s a heavy weight upon my chest.
As I lie awake and wonder what the future will hold,
Help me to remember that You’re in control.
You’re my courage when I worry in the dead of night.
You’re my strength ’cause I’m not strong enough to win this fight.
You are greater than the battle raging in my mind;
I will trust You, Lord, I will fear no more.
As
soon as these words touched my ears, I felt the power of God within me and I
began to realize that I could not handle all of this weight on my own. I suddenly
felt a calmness come over me and began to breathe normal again.
In
our first reading, Queen Esther, filled with anguish, breaks into prayer and
realizes that there is no one else who can provide her with the help she needs
other than her Lord and Savior.
Every
now and then, you and I need a little reminder that we need to turn to God for
help. We cannot handle our stress alone but need to rely on the one who can help
us carry our load.
During
this Lenten season, let us get into the habit of turning to our Father in
prayer. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to
the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
Lord, turn our mourning into gladness and our
sorrows into wholeness. Praise be to God, now and forever. Amen.
Today, we meet a Syrophoenician woman (Mark 7:24-30), which means she was from the area near Tyre and Sidon, just north of Galilee. These were cities truly lacking in faith, and those that lived there were Gentiles. Bottom line: if she was not a Jew, she was considered an enemy of Israel. But this was one brave and determined woman.
She
cried out to Jesus to heal her daughter, who was possessed by a demon. But she
was a Gentile, so he would not help her.
But she persisted. Finally, he acknowledged her, “It is not right to take the food of the children and throw it to the dogs.” (Many Jews referred to Gentiles as ‘dogs’.) The children of the Israel were to be fed first, meaning that she might expect that her turn would come, if she waited. But she wouldn’t take ‘no’ for an answer. She basically humiliated herself in a desperate effort to save her daughter, refusing to give up even when Jesus pushed back. Jesus is no match for her: she won’t leave; she beats him in the argument (willingly, I might add). She ends up breaking down his resistance and he changes his mind. Then, she ends up placing her complete and total trust in him.
It’s a great story of a mother’s love. The Syrophoenician woman teaches us something about prayer: sometimes God keeps us waiting so that we can deepen our faith. Persistence is key; that’s the reason God responds to persistence because prayer changes the one who is praying. Prayer doesn’t change God – it changes us. As we pray, God is making us spiritually ready to receive what God is already willing to do.
Let us put our complete trust in the Lord and remember that persistence in prayer makes all the difference in the world.
Today is the feast of St. Vincent, Deacon
and Martyr. Vincent was ordained a deacon by his friend
and bishop St. Valerius. The Roman emperors had published their edicts
against the clergy in 303, so Vincent and Valerius were imprisoned in Valencia,
Spain. They seemed to thrive on suffering, for hunger and torture failed to
break them.
Valerius was sent into exile, and the Roman governor now
turned the full force of his fury on Vincent. Many types of torture were tried,
but all failed.
Finally, the governor suggested a compromise. If Vincent would
give up the sacred books to be burned according to the emperor’s edict, he
would stop the torture. But Vincent would not give in, so the torture continued.
Vincent remained courageous, and the torturer couldn’t take it anymore. So, Vincent
was thrown into a prison cell and ended up converting the jailer. The governor
wept with rage; but strangely enough, ordered the prisoner to finally be given
some rest.
The faithful came to visit Vincent, but he was to have no
earthly rest. For when they finally settled him on a comfortable bed, Vincent fell
into his eternal rest.
Even in the midst of turmoil, God sticks with us and uses
those challenges that we encounter to shape us and make us better disciples. As
it says in the psalm, ‘In God I trust; I shall not fear. When we remind ourselves
of this, we no longer see our setbacks as failures and our problems as obstacles;
we see them as moments when God is working in us, strengthening us for our earthly
journey.
We will be rescued from our stumbling. All we
have to do is trust in the Lord with all our hearts. For when we trust in the
Lord, we have nothing to fear.
In our first reading (1 John 2:22-28), John tells us that as we have received the anointing from Christ, that anointing must remain in us. When the anointing remains in us, it teaches us about everything and is true. When that teaching remains in us, then we will remain in Christ.
The word “remain” really means persistence. When we “remain”
in someone, that means that we are persistently living in that location. When
we are persistently living in Christ, then our life is all about him and we are
staying with him. In the same way, when John said that the anointing abides in us,
this means that we need to think about the word of God persistently living in
us and directing our lives. When we pray the words, “remain with us,” we are
asking for the Lord to stay with us through all of life’s good times and bad
times. We are asking for the Lord to persistently hold on to us and never let
go. John is calling for us to live our lives in Christ and in his word, and not
in the world.
To remain in Christ daily requires us to do three things:
We must have a life-giving connection
or relationship with God. This is a mutual union where we are united with Jesus
always; for when we have no connection, we have no life.
We are to be dependent
on Jesus and rely on Him for everything. Are we spending consistent and regular
time with the Lord in prayer? When we are apart from God, we find that we can
do nothing.
Lastly, we must continue
to always remain in Jesus. We must persevere in His teaching by living out the
Gospel. Are we meditating on God’s Word and applying it to our daily lives? To remain
in Christ means to have a new relational direction.
So, as we begin this new year, let us make this
our daily mantra: that we have a constant connection with God, are dependent upon
God, and continue to remain in God. For when we remain in Christ, Christ will
remain in us and abide with us always.
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